Wild White House rumors claim Stephen Miller was using wife as Elon's handler before she left him for Musk

As Elon Musk announced he would step down from his role at the Department of Government Efficiency, the most shocking aspect was Katie Miller walking away with him to serve him full-time, leaving her White House role. A post in BlueSky has gone viral as it claimed that Katie leaving her White House role for Elon Musk is not the only thing, she is probably leaving her husband also for Musk. The post, however, said that there is no confirmation and the rumors are all speculation rooted in "circumstantial fact and gossip".

Katie Miller, wife of the White House deputy chief of staff Stephen Miller, was working as a special government employee for DOGE in the White House. The viral post said Stephen, Katie and Elon are widely rumored as a throuple. Stephen Miller had gotten close to Elon Musk in order to "run him like an asset" with his wife keeping an eye on Elon as the DOGE spokesperson. The viral post said Stephen Miller went around DC saying he was running Musk using his wife as Elon's handler.

If Elon Musk, Stephen Miller, and Katie Miller are having a 3-way, that’s their business. Don’t KKKink shame them.

— Frank Conniff (@FrankConniff) May 29, 2025

Stephen Miller’s wife Katie with Elon Musk? Stephen Miller DOGEd?

— jjzambon (@jjzambon) May 29, 2025

Now, Elon Musk is publicly criticizing Donald Trump's Big Beautiful Bill while Stephen Miller is "angrily" posting on X why the Big Beautiful Bill is big and beautiful. Stephen is angry because he has lost his wife to Musk.



Who are the Millers?

Stephen was a senior adviser in Trump's first term and Katie was the deputy press secretary at the Department of Homeland Security at that time. In 2019, Katie became the press secretary and in 2020, she became the communications director for then-Vice President Mike Pence. In 2020, they got married.

Insiders described the Millers as "glorified babysitters" for Musk, with Katie serving as the key intermediate between the DOGE and the administration.

Social media erupted over the 'throuple' rumors and exclaimed at Katie Miller's bad choice in men. People also wondered how Stephen Miller's anger at immigrants would now double after losing his wife to one.